By Dani Taylor
Although it’s true no one wants to find out their wife or girlfriend has been cheating on them and has been betraying their trust, not to mention exposing them to a possible host of sexually transmitted diseases, protecting yourself and your best interests is something to seriously think about, especially if you have that gnawing feeling in the pit of your stomach that never seems to go away.
Here are six classic signs of female infidelity you should be on the lookout for:
1. Apparent boredom: If the two of you once had a good rapport, enjoyed each other’s company and truly liked spending time together, but now, she seems distant, preoccupied, or generally disinterested in you, take a closer look to find out why this may be. In most any relationship that electric spark that’s present in the beginning will inevitably fade over time, but, change into something different and equally as pleasant, manifesting itself as a sense of comfort and stability. And, there’s definitely a different between comfort and boredom.
2. Changes in appearance: Changes in appearance is a tricky one as women often change their hairstyles or try different makeup or things that will make them appear younger or make them feel attractive, but, if her nails are always done now, her hair is always just so and she’s dressing now more provocatively than ever before, you should be wondering why.
3. Lack of interest in sex: There’s no doubt women’s sex drives differ from men’s and that hormonal changes, stress, work, and dealing with the kids can all come together to create the best form of birth control ever thought of, abstinence, a lack of desire may also indicate something else is going on behind the scenes.
4. Unexplained phone calls: In general, women do tend to spend a lot of time on the phone, but if your wife leaves the room to make a call or leaps out of her skin every time the phone rings, it’s probably safe to say that it’s time to wake up and smell the coffee.
5. Unexplained gifts: Is your girlfriend suddenly showing up for dates wearing new, and expensive looking, jewelry that you haven’t given her? What about clothing, does she always seem to have a new outfit on but you’re well aware of her financial situation and she can’t seem explain her newfound wealth?
6. Unexplained absences: If your wife or girlfriend is usually right on time and is where she says she’ll be, then take note of any changes in this behavior that can’t be attributed to circumstance. Spending more time with “the girls” than normal and going out on the weekends more often without inviting you to come along should also give you reason for concern.
While each of these signs on their own may not necessarily indicate that a female is being unfaithful, if two or more of them are occurring together, then it may definitely be time to start paying attention and getting some truthful, honest answers.
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